The Webster’s definition of Cherish is…
1: a :to hold dear :feel or show affection.
b :to keep or cultivate with care and affection.
:to entertain or harbor in the mind deeply and resolutely.
As a husband are you doing things that make her feel like you value her and cherish her? Do you know the best way to find out? Ask her. Yeah I know thats so simple, but its the quickest and easiest way to see if your connecting in that area. In your mind you maybe doing all kinds of things that you feel should be showing her, yet she may feel like you don’t. Don’t take it personal, there maybe areas that she specifically needs that you don’t see or are not aware of and thats ok. The fact that you asked shows that your trying to get tuned in.
The biggest thing for most guys is just plan old effort. If your looking for ways to make her feel special your on your way to having a cherished wife. As long as you have your feelers out because you really want her to know how you feel about her is a big thing to her. Once you do that you can start to fine tune it to her specifically and start to really touch her heart.
It just takes a little effort and a desire to honestly have a wife that feels loved and valued by her husband.
Start with this simple question.
“What am I doing now that makes you feel valued and cherished by me and how can I improve in this area?”